This article describes the subsequent state of interpersonal relationships after a person in love has a sexual relationship with a third party.
- For cases involving one-sided affection for only one of the parties, see "Unrequited love」。
- For cases involving only one-sided advances that are actually unrelated to the relationship between the other two parties, see "Simp」。
寝取られ(netorare, NTR), is the noun form of the passive voice of the Japanese verb "寝取る" (netoru; "to sleep with [someone's partner] and take them away") passive form noun, in a narrow sense refers to a genre of work where the male protagonist (called "Cuck")'sgirlfriendby other male characters (commonly known as "Blondie") coerced into sleeping with themSex. The gender-swapped scenario is called "Reverse NTR". When used as a verb rather than a genre classification, "NTR" is generally used as the active form of "stealing someone away," while being stolen away is called "being NTR'd." The meaning of the term NTR has also generalized after years of evolution.
Note that NTR refers to a situation where the original male and female protagonists are in a romantic relationship and a third party intervenes. For situations where someone else gets there first before the protagonists have established a relationship, it should be called "BSS”.
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Usage
Generally, the term NTR is mostly used in the passive voice, i.e., "being NTR'd," indicating a situation where one's partner is slept with by someone else.
NTR originally referred to a partner who originally belonged to "me" (Spouse、Lover, prospective lovers, etc.) sleeping with a third partySex. Generally, at the beginning, the heroine is resistant and passive, but after being "conquered" repeatedly, she develops a physical dependence on the third party, and gradually all the love in her heart is transferred to them. Simply put, it's taking the body first, then the heart.
After being localized in China, it has been generalized to mean "having one's partner (spouse, lover, prospective lover, etc.) forcibly taken by another" or being cuckolded; it can be used between males or between females.
In some works, one party will use some method to makeBlondiewear [something] andCucksimilar clothes, and then do some strange things.
For example~~ if A and B are a couple and C pushes B down, then A has been NTR'd by C, or C NTR'd A.
Derivative usage
- NTR is a loanword. In the Chinese-speaking internet, like other words originating fromArea 11, its usage has been generalized. This term is now also used asstealing someone else's romantic partner or wifeas a synonym (including capturing both the body and the heart), with a meaning similar to "Stealing someone's love”.
- Because the original term carries some moral controversy, use it with caution. Do not misuse it,do not use NTR for ordinary love polygons。
- In works where the male and female protagonists and supporting characters are in love polygons, due to character relationships and plot progression, there are often segments of stealing someone's love, and the love interest often changes, so the term "NTR" is also often used in its derivative sense forroastssuch works. For example: "NTR Town》、《A Lull in the NTR", etc.
- For works from the perspective of the "blonde-haired guy" (the interloper), the term "NTL" is often used.
Niutouren
NTR is also the abbreviation for "Niutouren" (Minotaur), and in ancient Greek mythology, theNiutourenwas indeed born from NTR; the combination of the two meanings has produced an unexpected chemical reaction.
CVEri KitamuraBecause she often voices characters who get NTR'd, she is jokingly called "Chieftain Kitamura" (referring to the "Warcraft series" Tauren ChieftainCairne Bloodhoof）。
As the poem goes: "Thunder Bluff（《World of Warcraft.Niutouren's capital city), onKitamura, Chieftain Eriri Cairne. Bloodhoof treads where flowers bloom, men and women alike are teary-eyed." (teary-eyed peoplecan be replaced withNiutouren）
So there is the saying "Flowers bloom at Thunder Bluff, blood stains Iroha" (from "Hanasaku Iroha"), but this is just netizens' parody and complaints about the plot; in fact, there is no real NTR plot in Hanasaku Iroha.
Home of the Tauren (NTR)The famous cuckold forum NGA[1] [2], Baidu Harem Anime Bar (banned, now moved to "Gongman Bar").
People who were NTR'd
Note: Regarding the format of the following list: If A and B are a couple, but C sleeps with B, thereby NTRing A. It is represented as:
B (C → A)———— "Work Title" (B is the one being taken, C is the interloper, A isCuck, C → A means C NTR'd A)
- Tamaki Chaimon(Oriya Rouma → Medical Student)————《Kakyuusei 2》
- Mogi Natsuki(Papa ♂️ → Fujiwara Takumi)————《Initial D》
- Yuria（Shin→Kenshiro）————《Fist of the North Star) (Fortunately,
- Masaki Kurosaki（Isshin Kurosaki→Ryuken Ishida）————《Bleach》 (After Masaki left the Ishida household, Ryuken married his childhood friend and family maidKanae Katagiri）
- Miwako Mizukoshi(Any man → Komugi Musashi)————《Abnormal Physiology Seminar》 (Komugi is an NTR fetishist; the more his girlfriend is pushed by other men, the more he enjoys it)
- Ken Inami (Shizuru Shirakawa、Tomoe Tobise、Tsubame Minami、Takano Suzuna、Nozomi Soma、Nozomu Soma、
Principal of Hamasaki Gakuen→Shirakawa Hotaru）————《Memories Off 2nd》 - Mikami Tomoya (Tomoe Tobise→Imasaka Yue）————《Memories Off After Rain》
- Kaga Shogo (Narumi Sako→Kurosu Kanata）————《Memories Off: Omoide ni Kawaru Kimi》
- Tsukamoto Shio（Akitsu Kanna→Kasuga Yuno）————《Memories Off 6: Next Relation》
- Akutsu Mabu (Otter →Niiboshi Reo）————《Sarazanmai》I cuckolded
- Hikari Kuroda（Makoto Itou→ Taisuke Sawanaga)————《School Days》
- Kotonoha Katsura（Taisuke Sawanaga→ Makoto Itou)———— School Days (Makoto, you...)
- Aoi Kanzaki(Yuuichirou Shoda → Akito Kurusu)————《True Blue》
- Narumi Takayuki (Suzumiya Haruka、Suzumiya Akane、Homura Manami、Hoshino Fumio、Amakawa Hotaru、Daikouji Ayu、Tamano Mayu→Mitsuki Hayase→Suzumiya Haruka）————《Kimi ga Nozomu Eien》
- Mitsuki Hayase(Shinji Taira → Takayuki Narumi)———— *Kimi ga Nozomu Eien* (After Mitsuki successfully NTR'd Haruka and got together with Takayuki, Shinji then NTR'd Takayuki)
- Haruto Kirishima (Yuzuki Eba→Nanami Kanzaki，Yuzuki Eba→Asuka Mishima）————《A Town Where You Live》
- Kiyomi Asakura (Takashi Yura→Kyousuke Kazama）————《A Town Where You Live》
- Yuzuki Eba（Haruto Kirishima→Kyousuke Kazama→Haruto Kirishima）————《A Town Where You Live》
- It is recommended to read the <A Town Where You Live> manga; due to budget reasons, the anime adaptation cut as much as possible and only covers the first half of the manga.
- Shinichiro Nakagami(Hiromi Yuasa → Noe Isurugi)———— *True Tears*
- Hiromi Yuasa(Shinichiro Nakagami → Jun Isurugi)———— *True Tears*I cuckolded
- Sawa(Akai → Oburi)————《A Kite》
- Everyone (Everyone → Everyone)————《Nagi-Asu: A Lull in the Sea》
- Mizuka Nagamori(An unknown male classmate instructed by Kouhei Orihara → Kouhei Orihara)————《ONE: Kagayaku Kisetsu e) (But Kouhei Orihara interrupted halfway through)
- Tsukune Aono(Akasha Bloodriver →Moka Akashiya(Inner))————《Rosario + Vampire》
- Akasha Bloodriver (Tsukune Aono → Issa Shuzen (Moka's father))———— Rosario + Vampire
- Yumi Sawamura（Kyohei Jingu→Kazuma Kiryu、Akira Nishikiyama）————《Yakuza》
- Luna Satsuki(Hitomi Tomozaki's boyfriend → Sora Aoi)————《Aki Sora》
- Ning Rong(Zong Shuai → Wanyan Zang)————《Hua Jianghu: Bei Mo Ting》
- Yi Lan(Zhuo Renqing → He Weifeng)————《Tale of Wuxia》
- Qi Li（Dongfang Weiming→ Guan Wei)————《Tale of Wuxia》
- Wang Rong（Dongfang Weiming→ Jing Ji)————《Tale of Wuxia》
- He Qiujuan(Fang Yunhua → Gu Shi)————《Tale of Wuxia》 (Limited to the Overlord route.)
- Jin Lingzhi (Li Weizhi → Ximen Feng)————《Tale of Wuxia》 (This is a wedding crashing; Ximen Feng's romantic luck was ruined without him even knowing...)
- Ishwari (Pagan Min → Mohan Ghale)———— *Far Cry 4*
- Amanda (Tennis Coach, Fabien →Michael） ———— *GTA 5* (
Without this NTR, Michael wouldn't have accidentally demolished Madrazo's house, then robbed the jewelry store to pay off the debt, Trevor wouldn't have come to Los Santos to find Michael, and then thrown the various factions of Los Santos into a state of panic...)） - Little Dragon Maiden(Yin Zhiping → Yang Guo)————《The Return of the Condor Heroes》
- Nan Lan (Tian Guinong → Miao Renfeng)————《Fox Volant of the Snowy Mountain》
- Zhao Dongni (Leung Fei-fan → Lau Sing)————No Regrets
- Cheng Xin、Yun Tianming、Ai AA、Guan Yifan————《Three-Body》It's already spouse swapping, so it's impossible to list who NTR'd whom.
- Nyna (Hardin → Camus)——《Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon and the Blade of Light》, Fire Emblem: Mystery of the Emblem
- ZekeCamus(Tatiana → Nyna)——《Fire Emblem Gaiden》
- Cigyun (Kurth → Victor)——《Fire Emblem: Genealogy of the Holy War》
- Deirdre (Arvis → Sigurd)——《Emblem of Incest: Genealogy of NTR》
Although incest - Mikoto (Itsuki → Hydra)——《Fire Emblem Fates》
- Ania (Natsume TomoharuFirst playthrough→Natsume TomoharuSecond playthrough）———— *Asura Cryin'*
- Alarielle(Morathi → Tyrion)————《Warhammer Fantasy》
- Tyrion(Malekith → Alarielle)————《Warhammer Fantasy》
- Keita Amano（Chiaki Hoshinomori&Aguri Sakurano→Karen Tendō）————《Gamers!》
- Aguri Sakurano（Keita Amano→GreenTasuku Uehara）————《Gamers!》
- Kallen Kaslana（Yae Sakura→Otto Apocalypse）———《Honkai Impact 3rd》
- Former King（Otoya Kurenai→Maya Kusakabe）————《Kamen Rider Kiva》
- Darjeeling(Assam → Orange Pekoe)————《Girls und Panzer》
- Normal Katsuya（Mr. R→Midou Takanori、Igarashi Taichi）————《Kichiku Megane R》
- Normal Katsuya（Honjou Shirou→Midou Takanori）————《Kichiku Megane R》
- Megane Katsuya（Sawamura Noritsugu→Midou Takanori）————《Kichiku Megane R》Actually, Sawamura was the one being pushed, but at that timeMidou-sanhappened to be forced to watch nearby, so in a
- Manami Honjou（Yuko→Manami Kanzaki————《The Lily of True Love is Dyed Red》）
(But actually this pairYuriboth were pushed, both are victims) - Miyuki Sone/Aoi Mukou(You →Shinichi Suzuki）————《YOU and ME and HER: A Love Story》
- Kyosuke Kamijo (Hitomi Shizuki→Miki Sayaka) ————《Puella Magi Madoka Magica》One of the reasons leading to Sayaka's darkening.
- Pan Jinlian (Ximen Qing→Wu Dalang）————《Water Margin》
- Midori (Grape-kun →Grape-kun）————《Earth Online》
- Sylvia（Travis Touchdown→Henry Cooldown）————《No More Heroes》
Overused Memes
- Gong Ba BrotherLike: Originates from the Baidu Harem Anime Bar (Gongba). The Harem Anime Bar is an anime-related Tieba established in 2006, with topics focusing on harem anime in a broad sense. In recent years, a large number of "refugees" flooded in, gradually shifting the culture of Gongba. The current Gongba has transformed from a gathering place for ACG enthusiasts into a place where "Old Drivers" (i.e., Gongba Brothers) discuss fetishes and "drive cars" (share NSFW content), thus Gongba was also "harmonized" by Baidu in 2020.
Due to the shift in Gongba's culture, "Gongba Brother" has become a synonym for middle-aged men with strange fetishes. In every corner of the current internet, under any thread discussing NSFW images or strange fetishes (especially topics related to NTR and lolicon), the comment "Gongba Brothers like this" may appear.
However, in reality, many true Gongba members do not like NTR and have normal fetishes; they alsoIncluding the one below
| “ | You don't have "great love" at all; you're just selfish, driven by possessiveness, wanting to monopolize the person you like. Think about it: if you truly had "great love," and so many people loved your girlfriend or wife, shouldn't you be happy for her? Isn't it a joyful thing that the person you deeply love is loved by so many? You just want to monopolize them to satisfy your pathetic possessiveness, yet you have the nerve to call it "pure love"? I declare that NTR is the true pure love, the great love; your petty kind of love doesn't deserve to be called pure love at all. From today on, I am the orthodox pure love. | ” |
| —— Harem Anime Bar Vice-Moderator, Uncle Huangmao | ||
Notes
- ↑ The famous cuckold forum truly lives up to its reputation!
- ↑ I won't die until I get Kawakaze! 80-year-old manga artist clashes with family over KanColle For many Admirals, they feel very repulsed when someone else plays their account without permission, feeling quite like their Waifu (a slang spelling used by Western netizens for 2D wives, it's really not a typo) has been NTR'd. Someone on Weibo once said that while they were grinding KanColle, they went to the bathroom and came back to see their dad constantly poking Kongou, who was the secretary ship, instantly feeling like their wife had been stolen. Alright, leave Murakumo to me; you guys can have the rest.